Monday, 11 May, 2026

Status of Mother in Islam: The Gateway to Paradise

Ummah Kantho Desk

Published: May 11, 2026, 06:58 PM

Status of Mother in Islam: The Gateway to Paradise

Motherhood is the ultimate embodiment of unconditional sacrifice and love, a sentiment that Islam has elevated to the highest spiritual rank. As the world celebrated Mother’s Day on May 10, 2026, with the theme Motherhood: Nurturing the Future with Love and Care, it is essential to reflect on how Islamic teachings have historically and divinely established the rights of mothers. While modern society dedicates a specific day to honor mothers, Islam mandates this respect as a daily religious obligation, intertwining a child’s salvation with the treatment of their mother. From Hawa (AS) to the Mothers of the Believers, the legacy of motherhood has remained the cornerstone of human civilization.

The divine status of mothers is clearly outlined in the Holy Quran, where Allah acknowledges the physical and emotional toll of motherhood. In one powerful verse, Allah mentions that the mother carried the child with hardship and gave birth with hardship (Surah Al-Ahqaf, 46:15). Furthermore, the Quran highlights the period of nursing and the gradual weaning of the child, emphasizing the mother‍‍`s constant endurance over years (Surah Luqman, 31:14). These scriptural references serve as a reminder that the pain a mother undergoes is a debt that can never be fully repaid by any worldly deeds, hence the command for absolute kindness.

Prophetic traditions further solidify this hierarchy of respect within the family unit. In a well-known narration, a companion asked Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) who among the people is most deserving of his good companionship. The Prophet (PBUH) replied, Your mother. When the man asked again, the Prophet (PBUH) repeated, Your mother, for the second and third time, only mentioning the father on the fourth occasion (Sahih al-Bukhari, 5971). This three-to-one ratio of priority underscores the immense weight Islam places on maternal rights. History is replete with examples of great saints like Abdul Qadir Jilani who reached spiritual heights primarily through the prayers and blessings of their mothers.

Linguistically, the word for mother carries a universal resonance. Most languages across the globe use the M sound to represent this sacred bond, from Mother in English to Ma in Bengali and Mother in German. Linguists believe this is because infants often make nasal sounds while nursing, naturally forming sounds like mama. Beyond linguistics, the cultural impact of motherhood is profound. Poets and writers have long struggled to capture the essence of a mother‍‍`s heart, yet the reality remains that a mother’s soul is a sanctuary for her children, often sacrificing her own health and youth to ensure their well-being.

Despite the rise of commercialized Mother’s Day celebrations, many mothers today find themselves isolated or neglected in their old age. Corporate culture may emphasize tokens of appreciation, but the Islamic model demands a lifelong commitment to their care. The tragic yet beautiful history behind figures like Mumtaz Mahal reminds us that mothers often risk their lives during childbirth, a sacrifice that is divine in nature. Therefore, the recognition of mothers should transcend a single Sunday in May. It should be a continuous journey of gratitude, service, and prayers, ensuring that the love and care they provided in our infancy is returned with dignity in their twilight years.

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